That's a good question Eric. No matter what, it can't hurt for me to talk to him.
Weekend was pretty good. Went out Friday night with friends, H stayed with the kids that night, he and I got into stuff after I got home - I was a little buzzed so I was more emotional than usual. It sucked to be honest. Ya know, listening to him say the same stuff over and over.
Saturday was busy all day and then took the kids on a Haunted Hayride - it was SO fun! They loved it! Had a kids birthday party to attend on Sunday and then a friend of mine stopped over for a little bit Sunday eve.
Then I get this text from H at 10:00 this morning...
"Why does it seem to me that you are doing everything you can to prove that you are a better parent than me…if I was home you wouldn’t be doing most of the things you are doing with the kids..and on top of that you will purposely put the kids to bed with no care at all as to whether they talked to me or not…"
(I know it's HIS guilt and HIS insecurities talking because it honestly didn't make any sense when I thought about it. Like seriously, he thinks I should sit in the house and do nothing with the kids?)
I replied about 2 hours later with "Sorry that's the way you feel. I am not competing nor am I going to defend myself. They go to bed at 9. Call earlier if you would like. Nothing's being done on purpose."
