Bobby

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I would love to travel and learn ballroom dancing. I would go on a cruise

So what is stopping you from doing these things now?

I joined a dance class early on in the bomb and honestly dude - it was the best thing I did.

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I have had is listening and to that end was a complaint of my wife.

Do you really believe this OR is this just a consistent complaint from your W. If you believe it - work on it.

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I know I have to fix me and maybe if I do these things my wife will find me attractive again.

For now...why not try to fix you and fall in love with yourself again. Don't worry about your W right now. She is on her own path.

I highly suggest reading codependant no more - great book as is Divorce Remedy.


"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter".
"Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!"
"Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans