Still needing some encouragement

[ericmsant2]

Kissak

If you are going to confront your H you have recieved some very good "emotional advice". I would aslo suggest the following:

1) Consult with a L - BEFORE you confront your H
2) Think about how you see the custody sitch working? What do YOU want? How will this work? What is best for the KIDS?
3) I would avoide mentioning the evidence that you have. If your state is a no fault state (like mine), the one must show that an A is the cause of the failure of the M. Do not share anything with him.
4) Sit down and figure out what YOU need to maitain yourself and the kids. Get specific.
5) Lock yourself away in prayer for a while to center yourself.
6) Once the anger subsides, you will need to ask yourself that question...DO you still want this? It is okay to want to remain married to this man. It really is.

Kissak - think of your boundaries...think of YOU..THis is really time for YOU.

Eric