DB9- My bomb

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To start dating her don't I need to ask her out? If I do that doesn't it go against giving her space and letting her come to me? Give me a specific idea if what I should do. Thanks

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No takers, I guess I'm going to have to "lead" myself back to trying to get some work done at the office.

[pookie69]

To start dating her don't I need to ask her out? If I do that doesn't it go against giving her space and letting her come to me? Give me a specific idea if what I should do. Thanks

Let her come to you. She sis call you the other day. She will do it again.

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The past two times when she came it was talking about her financial responsibilities. If she does it again then what would be the path I take?

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Also last night when talking about the OM and i told her I needed more then just her word, she said she didn't know what else she could do, but later I told her what she needed to do and she had no problem doing it when I said we would have no more contact if she didn't.

After that she was again talked about how mad inwaa going to nbd and that inwaa going to bitch her out eventually in which I said no I wasn't, I'm fine. What all this is leading to is when we left I sent a text message that said take care. She immediately responded with "what does that mean". To me that's a response that she was afraid to lose me when something as simple as a "take care"'makes you ask why.

[pookie69]

The past two times when she came it was talking about her financial responsibilities. If she does it again then what would be the path I take?

Tell her that you can talk about the financed over dinner. Take her somewhere nice and play it cool after you're done with the finance topic.

What did you guys do when you first dated?

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In was in school at the time. The first three months we dated I barely could get her to talk. It's a good thing we were having a lot of sex b/c we probably wouldn't of made it past two weeks. We spent a lot of time just hanging out. Maybe grabbing a bite to eat, hanging out with my roomates and other friends.

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On another topic, just like you pookie our pets were our kids to her. I'm going out of town this weekend and part of me feels like I should make her responsible for watching them while I'm gone. Is this a bad idea?

[pookie69]

On another topic, just like you pookie our pets were our kids to her. I'm going out of town this weekend and part of me feels like I should make her responsible for watching them while I'm gone. Is this a bad idea?

Don't MAKE her responsible. Ask her if she would like to. Be thankful if she does.

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She said that the only way for her to watch them is if she stayed here this weekend at the house. I don't know if that's a good idea.