OM is a major barrier and I was lied to and betrayed by her actions with him, and I told her last week this wont work.. and what does she say today? She thought they could still be friends? WHAT?
P-cola,
It's been pointed out to you repeatedly that your wife doesn't take your WORDS seriously -- only your ACTIONS. I don't know why you'd continue to be befuddled by her not taking your words at face value.