Eric and Truegrit I love you guys and I am sorry I did not recognize your efforts on my part. These are greatly appreciated. I enjoy sports and woodworking. I volunteer my time to the ballet studio my daughter performs at. If my wife files then we go through the process. It is just a piece of paper. I am Catholic so the only recognized wife under God is my wife. You can marry again if legally divorced but the church only recognizes your first marriage. I would love to travel and learn ballroom dancing. I would go on a cruise which I have never done. The biggest problem I have had is listening and to that end was a complaint of my wife. I know I have to fix me and maybe if I do these things my wife will find me attractive again. I need to read about codependence because that is an issue we have had. Thanks again for your help. Bobby O
