Crushed it sounds like she was taking YOUR temperature, which right now is a good thing. IMO, that means that she is still confused over what exactly she wants to do. The bigger question….is does this change anything that YOU do for YOU?

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She clearly views this time as "more get back at H" time as I have traveled overseas with my sport for several days in the past.

Are you sure that what she is thinking or why she did it OR is that you projecting YOUR beliefs? FTR, I am guilty of this….far to many times to remember.

What I have learned from this process is that as hard as it is…you need to focus on what SHE does and eliminate YOUR own projection/perception of why she does what she does. It does neither of you any good.

Eric

"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter".
"Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!"
"Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans