Like robx said, nothing is overnight. DBing is a marathon, not a sprint race. Pace yourself. Does it work? It needs to work for you. It won't save all marriages, but it saves many. What it saved for me, was my sanity. Like Robx said, my future wife will appreciate it, my X, it's her loss, and in my mind, I don't regret that one. It was best for my sanity, what it will do for you is up to you and the amount of work you want to put into becoming a better person for yourself. This is all for you, and if your WAW takes notice, than it could be good for her.


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