I am pretty happy. I am spending a lot of time with my sons and doing a lot of activities with them. I have been working out like a mad man as part of my GAL. I don't play poker and I am not a bar fly or club maven. I don't see anything wrong with stoking ones ego a little. After all it has been pretty much decimated the last few months.
I have read many times on this site that the primary purpose of this site is to bust the D. However, the underlying theme is to make yourself stronger via detaching and GALing so that one can endure the sitch that they are in. I see dating as just a progression in how one deals with their own relationship cycle and in making themselves a stronger person.
You are lucky in that your W realized that she would lose a great guy if she proceeded with the D. He!! I would by you a drink if I ever had the priviledge of meeting you because you helped me through my toughest times.
I have read a lot of posts on this site and you and a few others are in the minority with saving your M. MY M is over as I know it so I am focusing on me and making me happy and whole. I don't plan to create my own harem, just nice conversation with someone of the opposite sex...dinner and a movie.
