First - please re-read Alb's and Grits post to you. Especially this quote.
Quote:
FORGET EVERYTHING YOU KNOW AND STFU AND LISTEN TO THIS FORUM!!!!
As Grit pointed out it sounds like your M (and FTR, mine too) was a typical parent/child R. and RIGHT now YOU W has decided to become an adult. Sucks doesn't it...OR DOES IT.
You see, what I see in YOU Bobby is a relucance to face this reality.
Everything you always post is about your W. Everything.
Let me ask you a question....
If your W died tomorrow (and I hope she doesn't), and the kids were married and out of the house. You were retired. What would you do?
What hobbies do you have?
What do you like to do?
Did you ever have a dream that maybe due to finances, or kids, or something else you never achieved pursued?
What Bobby will you do IF you W files?
What Bobby will you do for YOU?
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
