First – I have felt first hand the pain that comes with “being served” papers. Hurt like hell and outside of reiterating whatever one else had said to you I will tell YOU know that YOUR journey is really just begun. You may not want to hear this right now – BUT YOU WILL SURVIVE. You may not feel like you will right now. BUT I want you to stop for a second and just realize that RIGHT NOW…this VERY SECOND….YOU are still married. RIGHT NOW…this VERY SECOND…you are not alone. RIGHT NOW…this VERY SECOND…you must grieve…grieve your OLD M – because Irish, it is dead. It had to die. Do not disrespect your M. Do not sit there and beat yourself silly thinking that anything you could have done would have changed this. Your H is sick and although right now, I would love to punch him in his head and shove my foot so far up his butt that he would have to open his mouth so that I clip my toe nails (ok…sorry a little anger from me), although right now all looks lost – IT is NOT. You may not realize this….BUT RIGHT NOW…THIS very second….YOUR H DOES NOT DERSERVE YOU! That’s right, HE DOES NOT DESERVE YOU!
My heart goes out to you and as Brooklyn has said many time before….you MUST feel this! The natural tendency is to blame yourself for the failure. Please do not. Take the time to really grieve your M. Take as long as you need – do not rush it. Cry, scream, pray, argue with God and tell him how wrong this is – THEN…
Stand
Stand for Irish – no one else. Stand for YOU sweetie.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
