What is up with these men ? How long does this take ? How do I know for certain if he is in a MLC?
Cadet has given you the resources to read so you can learn about MLC.
The basic is that MLC = Confusion.
I think you see that in your husband but that is not for me to decide. You must decide.
MLC is a combination of childhood issues, depression, hormones, a trigger such as a death, sickness, or illness. Some of the above, all of the above, or maybe some other traits.
As far as how long does it take, that is an unknown. But it is not short, that much we know.
The basic strategy for surviving a MLC is to outlast it. So what we need to do is to start to work on you
Like what was said, you are being given a gift of time. You have only one choice. Learn to use the gift wisely.
Welcome to the upside down backwards world of MLC.