I also do not want anyone to feel like it is the end all, be all, or that the fact that you are not D, holds some sort of special meaning...
Cat I agree with everything you wrote but please explain this one thing ^^^^ a little more.
Depressed people are controlling. Divorce is a way to control. So when the divorce does not occur why would you say that this has no meaning? To me it could be a message is being sent by the depressed person.
I understand that trying to understand mental illness is like garbage in garbage out.
