I tell them that I am seperated and that I am looking for friendship at this time. I do have a couple of second dates planned this week. Do yourself a big favor when you set-up your profile set a few boundaries. I am in my late forties so I had to state that "tewnty somethings need not apply" I already did that I am not interested in being someone's suggar daddy again.
Also, you will get a lot of foreign ladies claiming that they are from the states until you chat with them. So I also state that I am not interested in being someone's green card ticket and that once I understand that your are not from where you said that you are from you will hear this "click".
