I think I am pretty good and detached. I don't feel the hurt right now. That may seem awfully quick being that I didn't learn of the PA until last week, but deep down I knew. Finding out just made the detachment easier.
Interesting.
True story in my case - maybe not for everyone. I guess at the point when he finally admitted it I had already made so many changes in myself and knew I was worthy of better. The fact that he could do that to me after I had done so much personal work towards myself and work towards our marriage and lie to my face - and plan and scheme... well.... it just made me see him in a different light: a none too flattering one.
