Seeking and others,

I would like to share that some of these MLCer's MUST, absolutly must, get their Divorce.

That does not mean that is the end of things.

With many, it really isn't, however, it can be the only thing that helps them to realize that you and the M, was not really the problem.

While I don't want to see anyone wasting their lives, waiting, simply because this might be the case...

I also do not want anyone to feel like it is the end all, be all, or that the fact that you are not D, holds some sort of special meaning...

The truth of all of our situations, is that the M, the old M, is over. It is dead and gone.

The emotional divorce has already happened...

They are out there, living as if they are single.

In their minds, they are...

Guess what?

You have survived...

If the legal divorce happens...

You will survive that as well...

What happens after that point...is a future of all sorts of possibilities, including reconciliation...

It is not the end of the world, but definately a new beginning... smile


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox