if someone tells me it came from the text and I can't find it.. I will call you on it...
Good! I’m happy to have someone watching out for that. Now that place where I said it was from the text is where?
It's the TITLE OF THE THREAD, Arnie. I think those that post on the thread called "What is and is not DBing" have a reasonable expectation that what follows from people is going to be about, you know, what is and is not DBing.
Scgtox laid out the thread, and Coach (and pretty danged funny, I might add) challenged it head-on thru sarcasm and humor, making the point that strong boundary-setting IS DBing (and more effective, to boot). You challenged that, very cryptically/poetically, and the rest of us were trying like the dickens to figure out just what it was you were trying to say.
