I had an Internet EA and almost left my M. I was really in denial when I first started playing around online. Then it got worse. I was nothing like that woman! She was very much like these WAW's in A's that you read about here on the board.
I was still in the EA when I came here looking for help. That's why I try to pay it forward b/c this board helped me get my life back together. My M is still going strong today.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!