We were best friends but now she just switches gears and all the sudden has new friends and a new life while I am here struggling to pay the bills and perplexed stll in shock that 2 months ago almost she just walked.
I don't get this. Why are so many people talking about M their best friend? I saw a wedding ceremony where the man said, "Today I take you for my best friend forever". What???
My guess is that she looks for a man who is not her BFF. It's good to be friends if you're M, but I think it is more important to have that chemistry of sexual attraction! It seems to win out over friendship.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
