Always and Forever??????

[irishblessings]

So friends - this morning I awoke to this message from H. 28 years of love, care and commitment come down to one email sent to my work address:

I met with a lawyer Friday,to begin the process of filing for divorce. She needs to send you notification. She could send it to you via certified mail at work or at home. She did say that it could be sent to your lawyer if you have hired one and you could pick it up that way... Please let me know which way you think would be best and I will ask her to get it to you that way.

Can I set up a time to get some things from the house. I have tried to put together a list below to use as a reference point...

S's Scrapbook things from last year that I accumulated
Any tapes or DVDs that are mine
A matress, box springs and frame
Chest of Drawers
One or two Pots/Pans
Old Computer, Monitor, cables, mouse, keypad that was in the garage
Paperwork from file cabinets specific to Me
Memorabilia - Tropies, College Letters, College Sign, Pictures
Senior Pictures of the Ds
Pictures of kids, and my side of family
Basic Tools - Hammer, Screwdrivers,
Any remaining clothes of mine
Anything obviously mine that I have not mentioned

I have put in my 2 weeks notice to live and work at hotel and will be moving into to friends by Sunday, November 7th.

I asked S if he thought he and I could get together a night or two this week and he said he we probably could...

I am sorry for all the pain I have caused and continue to cause as a result of my choices and decisions... I do want to help the kids get through it any way I can...talking to them, helping pay for them to go to counseling... and hope you find a way to be OK though it all as well...

My new thread title is a tribute to our wedding song. I feel defeated, humiliated, discounted, and exhausted. I don't know how or if to respond to this. Any guidance would be greatly appreciated!