Really? Because I followed the books and the advice to the point where I just about lost myself...
In a nutshell, I lost my H, my house, my car, my oldest son, my self-esteem, my self-worth, my cat ran away last month & I can't get a dime from the man to support the son I do have, please tell me your effective ways of covering that mess.
You know my way? I grew up. I faced the fear of doing it on my own instead of hiding behind "standing" and an MLC label, which IMO gets tossed around here like rice at a wedding.
Sometimes, the spouse just doesn't love you anymore.
Accept it, forgive and move on.
I will do it and I will do it on my own with His help.
Originally Posted By: ArnieBGood
Just because I would choose to end the relationship in such a situation has nothing to do with how I would regard her.
Count your blessings that I am going to school to be a Pastor, otherwise I would tell you exactly how I regard my spouse.
(And yes, I ask for forgiveness for those thoughts as well.)
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
