"please excuse my harshness .. "

"if you don't know what your H wants, then you need to ask him, validate him, and learn to ask the right questions. active listening."

So.. where have you done this.. Dumped?

Please point to the post.. cause I missed it.

Relax
Eat
Think
Act normal
React.. Smartly.
Do something different.
Emulate.
Do Work.

Lets get "RETARDED" in here.