There are conditions to each and every aspect of your life, daily. You go to work on the condition you will be paid, you drive your car on the condition you have gas in it, you marry on the condition your spouse won't cheat on you etc...

There is no unconditional love nor unconditional regard on this Earth, if there was we wouldn't be having this conversation on this board.

According to my search on Carl Rogers, "Unconditional regard is is blanket acceptance and support of a person regardless of what the person says or does."

I have another word for that - Doormat.

May All Who Seek To Take My Life
Be Put To Shame And Confusion;
May All Who Desire My Ruin
Be Turned Back In Disgrace.
~Psalm 40:14~