It's a WONDERFUL program, but Retrouvaille won't take you if one of the spouses is still actively involved in an affair, Arnie.
Starsky
I am aware of that, and that is something that they address in the pre-w/e interviews. I do know of couples where the affair is ended just prior to the w/e - in fact on ours, there was a husband who came to the retreat center right from ending it with OW.