There is another approach that is more effective in setting boundaries. This has a greater chance of enhancing the relationship. It comes from a more heart-centered attitude towards one’s spouse and a place of unconditional regard for both myself as well as my spouse.
I disagree, Arnie. All healthy relationships are conditional. Only God has "unconditional love." Boundaries are all about placing HEALTHY limits on what we will allow others to do to us. They are for our own protection.