sa, it's been just one short but long year. You'll have a ton of emotions to process as life progresses, and you'll do well.
I can get riled up when I think of how far my/our life has been set back by H's antics over the last 7 years, but I also know that had things not have happened how they did I would not be doing what I am loving now.
Keep your chin up, eyes on the horizon.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
