Originally Posted By: sandi2
Oh cr@p! I need to stop for the night. Sorry Frank. I missed something. Sorry Starsky, thought you were replying to Frank. I need to hush aNd get some sleep. Tomorrow is another day on the life of the DB board.



It's all good.. just read my posts again.. I hope I made the point clear... maybe not...

I just find there's a lot of talk about working internally on one's self.

This is fine if there is no obsessiive or addictive behaviour happening your WS's part..

But if your spouse is engaged in heavy drinking, infidelity, depression, gambling... That according to the text needs directly addressed... "workign on you" won't help there...