I intend to live forever - so far, so good

[ClingingToHope]

In at work. Splitting headache. Met friends last night and stayed out longer than I should have and drank more than I should have.

Just sent L a response to house questions from Tuesday meeting. The only one that makes sense is that STBXW keeps the house and makes payments and pays expenses until she can sell it for what we owe or refinance to get my name off of it. I realize this could take three years.

The other ones aren't options, they are worst-case scenarios.

I also expressed frustration that after eight weeks, that appears to be the only thing they discussed. That cost me $250 (his hourly rate) and they set another meeting for November to ... discuss the house?

I asked him if there's a way he can cancel these appearances if her L has nothing of substance to discuss. It looks like her L is just running up everyone's bills. There's been no proposal on anything since we finished mediation in April.

More stuff moved in. After work, I'll get my clothes, bathroom stuff and go to the store to buy a shower curtain and I'll be living at the house.

I have lots of cleaning to do Monday, Tuesday and Thursday though at the old place.

Another exchange of emails from Match_35. This one was interesting.

I asked her how was the wedding (she went to it alone) and told a story about taking D10 to a wedding a week after the M split up so I wouldn't be alone.

She said she got sad when all of the couples were called out to dance, thinking to herself "Why can they find someone and I can't?"

Then she asked if I've had any luck with dating? She said she gets a lot of attention and dates, but all of the men she's dated are only looking for one thing and she's not willing to give it them.

So ladies, break that one down, please.