Originally Posted By: sandi2
Is there any of her family who can take care of her? What would she do if you were not there? Maybe OM would like to take care of her.

When a WAW in an A is as rebellious as yours is being, you've got to take tough messures.



Sandi, that seems very different from the advice I'm reading today from sgctox. I thought we were supposed to give them space, do our 180s, and not do the "man-up" thing?

These forums are all over the board on this issue. I'm not dealing with infidelity (I don't think), but I'm still confused about when we're supposed to take a tough stand, and when we're supposed to try and be their friend.

Starsky


M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

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