Okay, thanks for clearing that up. It depends upon how tough you want to make her reality. You could have had her move out and you keep your home for your children. You could tell her if they need food or clothes that they can come to their home and get it (if you were living there). Don't deny any needs your children may have, but you see what I mean? Yeah, they need water and electricity, etc. but how much of that is helping your W in her new way of living? Those are decisions you have to make and I'm only throwing out ideas. Don't want you to be a sorry man and certainly not a bad father, but there have been times that some WAW's in A's had to have the H get that tough.
What I meant by new man was the fact this is not the one she slept with, right? She's jumping from man to man......or will be. It's like going crazy.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
