My rule of thumb when giving up things that may hold memories is to put it in a pile to one side and give it 24 hours before doing anything with it. If it is something I think might be important to S15 then I put it in a box with his name on it (i.e. - wedding photos, family pictures). If it is something that brings back good memories for me but wouldn't be of any value to S15 then I look at it, capture the memory and then let it go. I only gave things to Gabe that I thought he would keep. If there was a possibility of him trashing a memory, I kept it or got rid of it myself.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!