Sandi as far as the note , this is when I moved back in for a week. She was out of town and I was just cleaning and found it. And yes I still pay all of the bills. I have the children there so I guess I am stuck. She does work but does not male a lot. It will be a real eye opener when she has to start buying health insurance and auto insurance etc. And it is not a new man she just told me he called out of the blue, but I know they must have been talking on facebook and we all know what happens next. Thanks for the advice. Keep it coming
