Sweetie, you do not ever have to feel that you cannot complain, especially to me. We have all suffered a great deal throughout this.
Our trials are unique to each of us. We all have problems, and we all have blessings.
I certainly have had my share of feeling a little sorry for myself.
And I know how difficult it must be to learn that he is spending money on her house.
When I think of the financial mess I am in as a result of my h, it can still anger me a bit.
Here's the thing - I dont hold onto the anger. Not for him - for me. Because if I do, then I am giving him control over me. That is something that I will not allow in my life anymore.
So, feel the anger for a minute and then remember how warm and cozy your house if for your children. Remember that they feel safe and secure there. Remember that it doesnt matter what state the house is in, only that you have a provided them a home and yourself one, too.
And who cares why he is building a room there? Not you, because you are on this journey to peace. He, on the other hand, is trying to buy and build things to fill a deep hole.
So, my friend, try to let it go. And fill your home with things you love.
