One thing I noticed. It appears we all spend much time getting the details of the drama to unfold. Everyone seems to have very common threads about the timelines, and how and when we all start to get up out of the daze, and it appears we also have very common frustrations and fears over the way to interact with our spouses.

this is freaking crazy!

M:42
W:39
S:9
M:20
T:25
D-bomb: 30 Sep 10
Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10
Working on it: 31 Oct 10