RB,

I'm sorry to be so personal and blunt, but it bears asking:

If you are still ML with your husband, and you don't know where he is with OW, are you using protection when with your husband?

Starsky

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)