WAW 20 Years. Divorce to maybe possible R

[Pensacolabroken]

Sandi,

I agree she is confused. I am too. She is getting all the mixed signals from me also. Lets work on it, I agree with you decision, Go ahead and leave, to get out.

so I am trying to find the ground to maintain the boundry that OM HAS to be out of the picture before we can hope to R anything. She acknowledges that and said that is her decision alone to make and if she chooses that path in the road, it is not because of an OM.

She maintains that he is out of the picture now. and I have made him bigger than it was to her. but she understands now how I see it.

I have to be cautious how I proceed.