1. She sees it as choosing a life without me pressuring her or fighting with each other and her being happy. 2. Living with me and working on the marriage.
I see it as
1. She wants to either be with him. 2. she wants to be with me.
First of all, I'm not saying that what she may be thinking is right or wrong, but I'd like to explain something. With men....they think more like, "It's me or OM". But to a WAW, it's not so black & white for her. She's not choosing just between two men....she's thinking about the total package that is labeled "happiness".
It's happiness that she wants. In her WAW state, she thinks OM is the pathway to a new life filled with happiness. She's very confused and it would be easy for her to react out of a sense of urgency.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
