Take care of yourself. That is not by obsessing about what is going on with her.
This ^^^^
I'm 12 hours into this process and I feel MUCH better. You are not giving up, you are giving her what she is asking you for. Give her that gift.
Something that helped me a lot. Focus on a single goal for now. One thing. Maybe it is finding an apartment, maybe it is finding an attorney, maybe it is telling a friend you can rely on your situation. One thing. Chose it and ot it. Tommorow, you can pick another goal.
Nothing will happen fast, and you won't know the long term outcome of your choices. But you have to act.
Protect yourself.
M:37 W:34 M:4 years T:6 years No Kids A disclosed - 9/1/2010 W asks for separation - 10/19/2010 Moving on - 10/24/2010 A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010 Content - 3/1/2011 Served - 3/18/2011 D Day - 6/20/2011
