Yes I did speak to Laurie many times. I think I will call this week. I sent MIL flowers because I thought God forbid that she died and I didnt kind of make ammends with her. I kind of believed it was my fault for her being sick because I said "what kind of grandmother are you to let ow into your home" about 2 mos ago and it was around then that she got pneumonia. She said " oh shut up " and hung up on me. I hve not spoken to her in at least 2 mos. and dont plan to for a long time. I know i shouldn't blame myself for h mistakes, but I do somethimes. I think the stress of h bringing ow into her house really bothers her but she never stood up to h, she is very passive, and codependent. I think her heart is failing because h broke my son's heart and deep down it bothers her. She knows what h is doing is wrong. Thanks very much for your reply. If you could please give me advice in future I really need it from a good source.
