WAW 20 Years. Divorce to maybe possible R

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Had to start a new thread folks.

latest development. She was pissed she got disinvited from boat trip. That was the reason for her CB all day.

We talked a little and she told me she cant be sure the changes she is seeing are real or not. She said she wants to believe they are. I told her either you want the marriage to work or you dont. Either you want to be with me or you dont. She said she loves me she doesnt like me.

She really did run to the grovery store and she stayed home last night.

I told her again that we cannot move forward with OM in the picure. She told me again she didnt have sex with him and she apologized again for reaching out to him to confide in.

Feel like I am in chinese handcuffs.

She told me "1 week ago I saw and said there was zero chance to get back together, now I see a possibility" and she said again that she cant be pushed at the fork in the road.

critical point here.

1. She sees it as choosing a life without me pressuring her or fighting with each other and her being happy.
2. Living with me and working on the marriage.

I see it as

1. She wants to either be with him.
2. she wants to be with me.