How to deal with a immature spouse??

[25yearsmlc]

FIO,
A bit of a 2 x 4 is coming your way...

I get the feeling you either want us to tell you in a nice "one weekend of new behavior or 8 sentences" way how to fix YOUR WIFE OR you want us to say "leave her" and we don't generally do that here. At least not for a guy who says his wife is immature and has a temper and doesn't fight well or fair....but says very little about his own role in any of this OR why she gets mad other than picking wrong in the first place (which is still blaming her). And how do you make up? Physically?

WHat is is she would say about you if she were here? IS ANY of it true or valid? that is a mature starting point.

So what are you willing to do? And as "easy" as a 2nd div seems to you, then finding and remarrying a woman who loves you AND may be able to commit AND whom you love AND who can deal with your own issues AND your family stuff....well, that's not so easy. Plus, btw, guess what?

You will have issus in EVERY marriage! I bet your parents had some challenges along the way, but they simply didn't think of bolting when it got tough.

So why not fix YOU before you shop again? Otherwise you're like a guy who won't learn to change his oil and has cars blow out on him ever few years. Instead of learning about how to change his oil, instead he just buys new cars, wears them out by not maintaining them (again) and then buys a whole new fresh and shiny car every 3-5 years. Costs a fortune and it's a huge hassle whenever another car blows out on him and sometimes hurts the passengers too...and his kids never learn a thing about taking care of their valuables b/c "hey, you can always get a new one"-- at some crazy high interest rate...whatever car is left on the lot, YOU'LL take it. It's shiny and today, it doesn't need an oil change... Make sense?
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