well I haven't even received a wink now from match for over 8 days! Maybe because I haven't signed in? City guy gave me an alternate email so I have been corresponding with him through that email since last weekend. Maybe if my "activity" report says "hasn't been on in 7 days" that could deter people? I know, I could be fishing and I do that as you know. BUt am not feeling super enthused!
Tonight it is stormy, I am exhausted and skipped out on a meetup where we would be dressed up and go dancing. NOT feeling like it- and I feel good about my decision! I talked to a friend on the phone and caught up on "Teach" with Tony Danza on A&E (HIGHLY recommend it for nonteachers and teachers alike)
This a.m. I took S to a science museum and we haven't been since he learned to walk! So he had lots of fun. I can't wait until this time next year when we can engage in even more exhibits.
ExH came to get him just as we entered the house (I was running a tad late). I had to change his clothes because he was soaked from spilling his drink all over him. So we had a few minutes of "chit chat." I explained how we just got back from that place and that he was actually not into the sand pit part, which surprised me because he loved the sand at the beach this summer.
ExH said "you went to the beach this summer?" WTF?!? idiot! Ummm yeah, twice and once was for an extended weekend with my friends- I KNOW I told him about both times and made a point to mention how he played in the sand! Did he totally blank that out or was he just playing dumb? I don't know.
He also warned me about the storm tonight and told me he would be able to rake up some leaves. Same old, same old... shouldn't things be different now that we are officially divorced? Don't misunderstand waht I am saying.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004