How do you know whether your spouse is in a MLC? Sometimes I thought my hubby was and other times I think not. Sometimes I think he has always been like this because of his family life as a child.
I don't know what to think anymore, I only know that my husband has been unhappy with me and our marriage for over 6 years. He had an affair for about 5 months or so. It is over. During the past 3 years I thought my H was becoming an alcoholic. Now I realize, he was just unhappy.
He refuses to acknowledge any of his shortcomings. He was still lying to me, keeping secrets.
Claims he wanted to reconcile but did nothing to prove to me that he wanted me or our marriage. When my Life Coach saw him ( only 2x) he told H that he has to start slowly moving back to me. H never went back to the Life Coach. H told me he can't be committed to me.
I have a long post under the thread of infidelity.
How long did your spouse stay away ? Were you separated ? Did your spouse have an affair? Did he say he never wanted to come back to you? Mine keeps saying he loves me but just wants to be friends.
