SHould I say I love you?

[Truegritter]

and for the record I already have women interested in me. I'm going to enjoy it.

This ^^^^^

Is where I got it.

Your words not mine.

I am not trying to bust your stones.

If what I am saying stings a bit then you need to look at why.

I know what you are feeling and your actions are not congruent to what you say you want.

Here is something to think about...

You say you want to work on your M

But it is conditional

On how your wife behaves or what she chooses?

When you took your vows did you say

"I will love and honor you the rest of your life, for better or worse

BUT

If you get confused and make bad choices

I won't"

?

You control what YOU want and what kind of man you want to be.

Your M is in crisis. Your W is running away.

You have been here 11 days.

Are you going to let someone compromise your integrity and your honor in 11 days?

How does that make you any better than your W?

You didn't answer my question either...

What do YOU want?

Figure that out and do it. Forget your W and what she is doing right now.

Now it is about getting YOU back.