I told her I wanted her to move out and get her own place so she can be with whoever she wanted.
That was not a Rhett Butler type of dropping the rope. Until you don't give a d---, you aren't dropping the rope.
You see, she immediately started playing you by dangling the bait. You can't drop the rope b/c you are wondering if she might R. Dropping the rope can't be a ploy to get her back. If you are going to use tactics to try and get her back, then don't call it DTR.
She knows.......she KNOWS that she has you in her hip pockett and can take you out to play with whenever she wants. Until you actually dump her, she will continue this route. She is still using you as a "if everything else fails" option.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
