In the process

[flowmom]

You know, I am getting a little annoyed with this super slow email exchange between City Guy and I.

I think I was wrong- if was "into" me, he would be emailing at a faster rate, don't you think?

So, last time I heard from him was 4 nights ago when he asked me what my big dreams were. I repied on Wed, three nights ago.

He may be "into you" but juggling other women -- fair enough right? It's a dating site. Plus, as I wrote before, he hasn't seen your IRL awesomeness yet. He doesn't know if he's into you or not. I wouldn't suggest putting him on the spot about wanting to see one another. I was determined to make Guitarist make the first move, so when he talked wanting to meet and exchanged email addresses but then I didn't hear from him for a week (!!), I was very discouraged. But I couldn't get him him out of my head, so I sent that "nudging email", which prompted him to ask me out. I would suggest waiting until a week has passed and sending a "one last chance" nudging email if you're still interested. I think my nudging email was more flirty/an invitation than a "so what's the deal, do ya wanna go out or not" email would have been. It expressed my interest but it still put the ball in his court and left space for him to initiate the next move.