Jin - what a shock - about the police not being on our side. H actually had told me that he called the police on me anumber of times so that it would help him if it came to D. I never ever thought that way. I can't believe someone would manipulate the justice system to get what they want (and then yell and scream at me for even bringing up calling the police on him when he's really bad).
I guess I regret not calling the police when he laid a hand on S. I am so dumb. I protect him and protect him and set myself up to be powerless. I need to wise up and quick! I cried all day the other day to realize that the man that I believed I loved and that loved me is so manipulative, controlling, mean, hurtful. I have just not wanted to see it. Now I do and it's a true shocker.
Yesterday was a perfect example. h wants to keep his stuff here because he "owns half the house". I told him I'd ask my lawyer. He threatened "Well I don't have to keep you on the health insurance but I do, so ... we need to have a constructive dialogue (lawyer term) ... I don't want to start a war..."
Well he had me served, thats' starting a war. Making threats is starting a war. How can I even deal with this?
By keeping my mouth shut. I kept saying I don't want to talk to him except through email, talk to my lawyer, etc and he kept trying to engage me and I bit.
