heck- I think you can suggest meeting without even saying it is awkward!

As for determining when she has kid free nights, that doesn't have to come up until you find out if she wants to meet.

She could have switched things around to go to the wedding but it isn't her normal kid free night!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004