Talked to SIL on the phone today. She said H is really looking lost. She can see he is just falling apart. Living these three realities is taking it's toll on him.
He also bought a dog. A Pomeranian. We're guessing this is OW's influence. H and his family have always had dogs, but usually medium to large ones. If H were to get a little dog, I would have thought a Pug. He always said he loved Pugs. But a Pomeranian? I'm guessing he's finding the emptiness upstairs too much for him and is trying to fill the void. I get it, I do. I mean, having the cats with me has helped. But they are not taking anyone's place.
But he still has not faced what he has done.
H32 Me32 together:10 M:5 No kids ILYBINILWY 7/28/10 OW found 8/15 A exposed 8/31 I Move 9/3 Dark 10/1
