Instant email back from W: "my first thoughts is that you have them almost the entire weekend and I am not agreeable to that" My reply "ok".
Then immediate TM: W: "Do you really think we need to start shifting the kids around right away as opposed to you picking them up from school, spending time with them and them staying at home so they can get adjusted?"
Me: "No my preference, but I see no other choice given the situation. You and I (and them) must get used to the new reality and we can't pretend that it's not happening"
Her: “Not about pretending – it's about easing them into it”
Me: “We can discuss tomorrow. I just wanted you to have the opportunity to have time to think about where I am before we discuss it.”
Her: “That is understandable Wouldn't leave much weekend time with me – church is held during the week as well.
Me: “Ok, I'm flexible.”
Her: “Surprised you thought that much of the weekend was acceptable. And so much off that bat”
Me: “I was thinking noon to noon. That's about half.”
Welcome to the new reality, W.
M: 39 W: 37 Married: 9 D5; S3 "It's Over" 09/26/10 11 Day Sep 10/10 Piecing Starts 11/4/10 Piecing Fails 4/11 I move out 5/11 Hire Lawyer 6/11 - Stall 6/22/11 Piecing #2 - 6/22/11 Home 10/11
